Notes from the Road
This post could also be entitled:
Can’t Bake Now… I’m on the I-5.
Joy the Driver and Lauren the Snack Coordinator
Joy the Baker eats 6 pounds of Chex Mix between San Francisco and Portland
or simply… Joy the Baker moves her sister from Los Angeles to Seattle in a Budget moving truck creatively nicknamed Budgie.
It’s early Tuesday morning. My Mom makes Lauren pose with her moving truck. That’s not weird, right? Not weird at all.
The I-5 between Los Angeles and San Francisco. Green, trees, produce and trucks.
This is a picture of my sister driving. Let me tell you why this picture is a small miracle.
See, my sister just learned how to drive last week. She got her license… last week. She’s 26. She was afraid to drive until… last week. And now… here she is driving a moving truck at 80 miles an hour down the highway.
I told her to slow down. I told her to calm down. I told her that there was no room to screw up. I don’t think that helped.
I snapped the picture during the whole 20 minutes that I let my sister drive between Los Angeles and Seattle. It’s not that she’s a bad driver. It’s more that I’m kinda a control freak when it comes to things like… my life and living.
I may not have let my sister drive, but I sure did let (make) her pump all of the gas. Not her favorite part. Fact.
We stopped at Shasta Lake in Northern California to stand still and look at water and mountains.
A self portrait seemed like a good idea. All we got was bush and blurry eyebrows.
We parked Budgie illegally. We kinda just stopped her on the side of the road. That’s cool, right?
A cool 10 minutes beyond the sunshine of Shasta Lake we hit the snow. We hit it hard. Driving through the snow stressed out my Southern California self. This was deeply disturbing to me.
Lauren made me pull over so that she could jump around in the snow. I was still stressed out until I saw her leaping, jumping and eventually falling into the snow. Cute. Super cute.
We finally made it to Seattle. I’d gone through a Costco size bag of Chex Mix, ungodly amounts of dried apricots… and there’s half of a strawberry cheesecake in the truck that I don’t want to talk about.
Somewhere just outside of Portland I put my cranky pants on. I was tired of driving. I was tired of having to eat Chex Mix to stay awake, and I just wanted to be in the Seattle to drink the cup of coffee that I’d been waiting days and days for.
We made it. Thank heavens. This is the view from my sister’s apartment.
And then I took my cranky pants off, because I turned around and saw this face. The darling face of my darling little sister standing in her very first apartment on the very first day in her new city. I’m lucky to have been able to share this journey with her. Sisters are friends forever… that’s what we tell each other… because it’s true.
Then… we unpacked the truck. It had its obscene moments.
To make up for those obscene moments, my sister bought me a latte and a doughnut from Top Pot. Holy heck! This set my world right.
Sure I drove days and days to help my sister with her big move. But maybe… a tiny itsy bitsy part of me was in it for the Seattle coffee… I ain’t gonna lie.



















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This. post. is. too. sweet. My eyes welled up at the photos and your sweet words about your sister. I wish I could have had that experience. I’ll never know how it is to have a true, full sibling. Someone you’ve grown up with and can count on as a friend. *sigh* Both of you are BEAUTIFUL inside and out. I love the photo of your sister in the snow and in the apartment. You can tell that the photographer truly loves the subject in the photo. *HUGS* I’m glad you two made it there safely.
This post brought tears to my eyes as I thought about my relationship with my sister and how we would have laughed and argued the entire drive up the I-5. In fact.. we have. We’re originally from Northern CA and live in Southern CA.
Thanks for being so genuine and authentic. You’re legit.
Yay! Joy thank you so much for posting that. I was at the edge of my seat the entire time of your journey hoping you get here safely. I love the pictures! Thank you for bringing my girl to me :)
Ah Seattle. I miss it so very much. But not as much as you’re going to miss your sister. Sweet post, Joy.
I SO would have let you stay the night at my house in Eugene and bake me breakfast.
Sounds like an awesome road trip — thanks as always for sharing your lives with us. Your sister is going to love Seattle! Here are some good coffeeshops to check out:
Zeitgeist
Zoka
Vivace
Also, there are tons of great food trucks in Seattle. Like this one that’s shaped like a pig: http://www.maximus-minimus.com/
This post is really sweet. I’m not gonna lie. I teared up at the end. The shots of Shasta Lake are so beautiful. And that latte at the end looks divine! Glad you had an awesome sisterly road trip.
This made me smile so big, my mom lives in Shasta Lake :) It looks like you guys had an awesome drive!!!! New things are exciting!
Seattle is one of my favourite cities in the world. I hope to live there one day! Glad you both made it safely :)
ahh, i heart seattle … but then again, i live here.
and top pot?! hello! heaven in the form of dough. so, so good. welcome to seattle joy! hope your sister loves it here as much as the rest of us do!
I have made that drive before in the snow! What a looooong drive. Glad to hear you had each other to keep you sane!
So I’ve got crazy curly hair kind of like your little sis. I wonder what product she uses in it? It looks great! :) Sry this ain’t a baking question. I’m always looking for something new to make my crazy hair look better!
Sisters are the best thing in the world, arent they?! ;) theres nobody and nothing i love more than my sister, she truely is the love of my life! nothing compares to that. this is such a lovely post, joy! :) made me kinda sad too though… because ill be moving to a different country this month and my sis wont be living with me anymore… she wont be there for my move either (wish i had a truck but all i get is a lousy 20kg on a plane!) and ill be missing out on her big milestone birthday. im living my dream though, its very bittersweet! :)
Awww, top pot doughnuts are the best! Came across them by accident the last time we were in Seattle. Love your road pictures and so special to spend time with your sister. I live right by the 5 in No. California, so you drove right by my house! Glad you made it safe.
Awww… good big sister.
Awwww…makes me wish I had a sister (or any sibling for that matter). Being 38…I am willing to bet that it’s not gonna happen.
Be thankful for her everyday. :)
Love the post! So cute! Makes me wish I had a sister.. And pass this along to Lauren for me: I didn’t get my license until I was 25– two weeks before moving out on my own into my first apartment as well, so I’m right there with you! Although you’re doing much better than me. 3 years later and I still won’t drive on the highway. Glad you guys made it safe and best of luck in Seattle!
Aw, I loved this post. I have a complicated relationship with my sister, but we have our moments when I’m so glad she’s around.
Oh Joy, if you get the chance, you should check out Espresso Vivace. I hear it’s excellent! I’m stuck way far away in West Texas, but I’ve always said I would drink some coffee at that place if I ever made it to Seattle!
Google David Schomer and Espresso Vivace. This guy is a coffee rockstar!
BTW. Your site is awesome. Your pictures are beautiful. Your creations are magnificent. I love it all. You rock.
I just walked by that coffee shop tonight! I’ll definitely go back for coffee in the morning!
Oh these pictures are precious! Made me miss my sister!!
very nice shots !
I love Seattle, I’m from there too! Ironically, I have been in California for the last 3 weeks on business.
I wish I was there, I wanted to set you up with my friend!!! You’re just adorable!
I love this post!! Sisters are the best and I can tell that you and yours have a great relationship! This post made my night! I’m going to go call my sister now :)
Love!
You’re brave. Even thinking about my sister moving makes my heart ache. The way you talk about your sister is exactly how I feel about my twin sis. I am glad you had a great road trip and your sis is glowing. I bet she is so excited!
Joy, this is definitely a familiar stretch of freeway for me. Love the photos. Shasta is such a pretty area. You two are real troopers for powering through. What job did your sister get? Such an awesome city full of great food, shopping, art, nature, etc.
PS-Orangette owns a gourmet pizza restaurant in Seattle you may want to stop by. http://delanceyseattle.com/
What a sweet post.
I think I live as far South of the needle as your sis lives to the West…which sounds all stalker creepy OR very small world…which is how I meant it, promise.
Before you go home, go onto Broadway and Olive and have some yummy eats at Bleu Bistro smack dab in Capital Hill, a bar with seriously fantastic food. And their Raspberry Lemon Drops are pretty good too.
So many Seattle people around this blog! I should have planned a dinner! Dang! Let’s plan one for my next northwest visit!
I love bonding moments! And Top Pot. I’ve heard raves about Vivace, near the REI buidling for coffee. Thanks for letting us come along on your road trip!
Heck yea! I’m headed to Vivace for coffee tomorrow! Can’t wait!
i am completely obsessed with anything and everything seattle. so happy for your sister that she gets to start a life there and lucky you that you get to visit!
sounds like a fun trip even if you were cranky at the end.
sisters are amazing.
i adore mine also!
YAY for lake Shasta! LOVE IT!
I am also sooo excited that you got Top Pot!! that is THE BEST!
Your sister has an amazing apartment! hope you are having fun!
This is a very sweet post… I love it!
Joy! Can we meet? Please? I know you’re in capitol hill. I know it! I live right by that top pot. You are such a cool person and I can’t believe you’re right here! Wanna get coffee?? You should have a seattle joy the baker fan club coffee get together. That’d be rad.
You’ve found me out Dafna. I’m totally on Capitol Hill! Yes. Let’s meet for coffee tomorrow! That would be a hoot! Email me at joythebaker at gmail. Yay!
I always wished I had a sister, and now I really wish I had a sister. You and Lauren are lucky to have each other. Good luck to her in Seattle :-)
The pictures are beautiful. As is sisterhood. I wouldn’t trade my 2 sisters for the world…unless it was guaranteed to be full of dark chocolate Godiva on a daily basis for free.
Sellubg your sisters out for chocolate!? Bold move.
Mmm … Top Pot. And now you can sit in L.A. dreaming of your little sis in Seattle and I can sit in Seattle dreaming of my little sis in L.A. One day we’ll get it all straightened out!
Welcome to Seattle!
I moved here in a Budget truck as well! Mine was named Bridgette the Budget :) Glad to see the cool kids name our moving trucks.
This post is so sweet !
I’ve a 26 year old little sister too and she’s my best friend.
Lauren and you are lucky to have each other !
I agree, my sister is my best friend, and I’ve always helped her to move, although when she moved to Venice it was not that easy, because you have literally to carry everything yourself. Good exercise though.
Have fun in Seattle!
XXX
(singing)Sisters, lalalalalala:)I feel exactly the same way about my wee sister. She bought me some goodies recently from a place called Cakeboy – you definitely would have approved! Love your posts xxx
I have been reading your blog for a few years now, and I wanted to let you know how much I enjoy reading it- really *reading* it. I subscribe to a lot of food blogs but I often skim the text because it’s just not that interesting. Yours is different- I love your voice, it sounds like I’m reading a letter from a friend. Anyway, thank you and keep posting. Your recipes are also awesome!
Thank you Amy! Your comment means a lot to me.
So sweet! Your sister IS darling.
best of wishes & dreams to your sister (& you!!)…
what a warm & loving post!
I just burst out laughing when I read about your sister just getting your license. You see, both my fiance and I got our licenses one week…. yes, the same one week… before moving across country in a truck from Seattle to NY. Just looking at your pictures reminds me of our own move, how much I miss living in Seattle, and how much I’m not looking forward to driving back across country (this time to SoCal) in a few months. It all just made me smile. Such a beautiful post!
You comment totally made me laugh! Amazing! Make sure to shoot me an email when you get to Southern California!
What a sweet post Joy! It brought tears to my eyes, in a good way. You sister looks like a very sweet girl. I bet you all will always remember this road trip, sounds like it was a tasty one!
Super sweet. Aren’t sisters the greatest? Thanks for even more insight into your life. I heart it.
This really made me think today. My sister is my best friend and I haven’t really considered that one day we may move apart. Makes me sad.
I really enjoyed your story.
All of you people are unbelievably sweet. Thank you for the lovely comments!
yes sisters rock. Where would we be without them? And as a little sister I must say big sisters are great at taking care of us and letting us get away with all sorts of things…although they can be kinda bossy at times too, but hey I guess they have that right after everything we put them through.
Pic of Lauren in the snow is beautiful, she looks so happy :)
x
Lovely story-in-pics – like apparently everyone else who read this, I too teared up. What a beautiful relationship you have with your sister! Oh, you were a super-hero to let her drive, btw – whoa.
You guys are so cute! Looks like a fun trip :-) I’d do it for the coffee as well!
Reading this post makes me miss my little sister in the worst way, and not just because she’s also in Portland while I’m out in DC. She’s actually my half-sister (same dad), so we never really grew up together. We lived in different states but somehow we ended up as best friends (never mind the 8-yr age difference). I would totally drop everything to fly out and drive a Budgie to help her make a move, so this post made me smile and cry at the same time. Don’t worry, that’s a good thing – it means I’ll call my sister in a couple of hours to catch up with her. :)
Oh, and the photography? Kick. Ass. AMAZING. I particularly love the pic of you in the rearview mirror. And the doughnut and the latte. I won’t lie, I’m heading out to the nearest coffee shop right now because I can’t get that image out of my head.