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Penpals

May 1, 2011 by Joy the Baker 252 Comments

penpals

I need you.   Did you know that?

I’ve had the shaky leg lately.  I’ve eaten waaaay too much popcorn in full-on fits of what can only be described as ‘nervous eating’.  I’ve more to-do lists than I care to admit.  I shouldn’t even mention this weird pacing and sweeping the floor habit that I have.

I think I’ve been a little anxious in the world.  Earthquakes. Taxes.  Tornadoes.  Bin Ladens.  I dunno.  I’m feeling it.

There’s this thing I do when I’m anxious… I try to make other people feel better.  Thinking about making other people feel good makes me feel good.  So!  I pick up a pen, bust out my box of stationary, and write letters.  I know how much I like to receive letters, and I feel compelled to pass on that sensation.

I know I’ve written a handful of you letters for my 30 Things Before 30 Years post, but I wanted to broaden my reach.  I want to write more of you.  Can I?

Here’s the deal:

Send your address, or the address of someone you think might really enjoy a handwritten (albeit entirely silly) letter.  I will, in all likelihood (and in due time) write you a letter.  If you receive a letter, please (please!) snap a quick photograph of you and said letter to email to me.  Deal?

I have a feeling I’m going to need to stock up on stationary.

Oh!  And I should mention that if you entrust your address to me, I will only use it for purposes of friendly letter writing… I won’t stalk you… although if I did stalk you, I’d probably bring cookies.  So.  You know.  Not so bad.

Email you mailing address to: joy the baker is my penpal (at) gmail (dot) com.  No spaces… silly.

Check your mail.

Ps.  I sometimes use crayons.  I’m one of the cool kids.

Pps.  Judging by the response so far… I’m really going to need additional stationery.

Ppps.  An update.  It’s been less than 24 hours, and I’ve received nearly 1,000 addresses.  I’m stoked.  I’m amazed.  I’m going to get a hand cramp.  I’ve written six letters so far.  Six.  Keep the addresses coming.  I love you.

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  1. International Pen Pal Vinney

    September 10, 2011 at 4:32 am

    1000 potential pen pals is incredible, well done. I won’t add to what is going to take you a massive amount of work, but just to say hand writing letters has something very special about it that we seem to have lost in the busy Internet age.

    Reply
  2. Laura

    June 27, 2011 at 9:50 am

    I wish people wrote letters more often. It’s such a lost art nowadays. I love writing and sending and receiving, and I especially enjoy sending little gifts in letters (pieces of ribbon, light necklaces, random items). There’s a special place in the heart for getting a letter.

    Reply
  3. D@nielle

    May 25, 2011 at 12:43 pm

    oooh exciting, I’m emailing you ! grts, D@nielle

    Reply
  4. Cookie

    May 18, 2011 at 7:03 pm

    I’m from Brazil and just send the email with my address…

    Will you reply????

    Only time (and the mail man) will tell.

    Reply
  5. Sabrina

    May 11, 2011 at 8:42 am

    What a nice idea! You’re great! If you write me, I’ll write back. I promise!
    xoxoxo, Sabrina

    Reply
  6. Kristin Shyla

    May 10, 2011 at 2:31 pm

    oooh- I think this is a rad idea- :)
    ks

    Reply
  7. Liz

    May 10, 2011 at 2:19 pm

    Thank you Joy for being so generous with your time and kindness. As if your beautiful blog wasn’t enough! You will be spreading a lot of sunshine around and I hope to pass it on as well!

    Reply
  8. Christine

    May 9, 2011 at 5:55 pm

    I love love love this! I was just thinking that I wanted to do something like this as well! Such an inspiration!

    Reply
  9. Kelsey

    May 6, 2011 at 11:28 pm

    Joy,
    You are such an inspiration, and overall just an amazing person! This is such an awesome idea….you are such a sweetheart. Are we allowed to send you a letter back?

    Reply
  10. Adam

    May 6, 2011 at 10:47 pm

    I got a letter today, it was from Joy. I totally squealed and my mailman heard me.
    I am incredulously happy – https://img710.imageshack.us/img710/1293/photoon20110507at00462.jpg
    you’ll have to excuse the wall behind me.

    Reply
    • joythebaker

      May 6, 2011 at 11:02 pm

      i like the wall behind you.

      Reply
  11. Amanda S

    May 6, 2011 at 8:36 am

    Love the Idea! I want/need to send letters too!!!!

    Reply
  12. Mandy

    May 5, 2011 at 8:46 am

    This is sooooo inspiring! Thanks, Joy! You do make people feel good and I’m always in for a good giggle when I go to your site… which is like everyday! ^__^

    Reply
  13. Douglas Dringal Stevens

    May 4, 2011 at 10:31 pm

    I think the worst song that could ever come on the radio whilst driving your friend home from a leg-amputation procedure is definitely WHAM’s “Careless Whisper.”

    For your legs!

    Reply
  14. Anna

    May 4, 2011 at 6:54 pm

    i want ooonnnnnnneee!!!! what a nice thing for you to do, what a lovely reaction to stress and a disordered world. thanks for caring, joy, you’re the best!

    Reply
  15. Britt Bravo

    May 4, 2011 at 12:30 pm

    Hi Joy!

    Just wanted to let you know that one of my readers recommended you as a “juicy blog.” You can see the full list of 22 juicy bloggers here: https://bit.ly/22juicyblogs2winners

    ~Britt

    Reply
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