What Can We Do Better This Week?

A Better Monday!

I’m here with some Monday tools because I want us to have a week that is equal parts productive and not totally sucky.  We’re writing lists, we’re being considerate to ourselves and people around us, and we’re going to tackle the big and the daunting.  Essentially, I want us not to pull our hair out.  

We need a team high-five.  Let’s fight the good fight! 

โ€ข  I write a daily to-do list but on Mondays it’s nice to write a more broad list in addition to the daily deal.  Write a list of goals for the week.  This could include larger projects you have on your plate, a home task (why is folding laundry so so so hard!? ), or a self-care treats.  (How about a face mask whiiiiile folding laundry?  Boom boom pow.)  

โ€ข  WATER!  Drink more water, but make it interesting!  Coconut water powder, add cucumber, add fresh basil, add a splash of aloe vera juice (hardcore).  

โ€ข  Have fun making dinner one night.  Yea… even if it’s just for you.  How about The Best Weeknight Chicken Dinner?  There’s buttery rice and peas involved, plus leftovers for lunch.  

โ€ข  Try something fresh.  Even if it’s Facebook Live and even though that seems terrifying.  

โ€ข  Do the thing you don’t want to do.  For me that means calling my health insurance company.  I’m SO GOOD at NOT doing this.  I need to change my game and really… just do it. Do the daunting things first thing and relish in the glory of crossing it off the list.  

โ€ข  In conflict, think of the other perspective.    See someone’s frustration as where they might need support and what you can offer.  And then, if you do this successfully… eat an ice cream sandwich because that business is hard sometimes.  

โ€ข  Call someone you love.  On the phone.  With your voice.  It’s all about nurturing relationships which, apparently, don’t nurture themselves.  

โ€ข  Give someone a pep talk.  My maj Tracy has gotten me on the pep talk bandwagon this week.  It feels good to encourage people because it’s basically like encouraging yourself at the same time. Positivity breeds. 

โ€ข  Think ahead for yourself.  This post , The Beauty Products I Always Run Out Of and Rebuy, got me thinking about the things I need to restock just so my future self can be less frazzled before running out the door to something or other. 

โ€ข  Be in love with your life, every bit, even Mondays.  This can be challenging too.  It’s all about perspective and ice cream sandwich rewards.     

Let’s go get it!  

xo Joy

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  1. I make this at least once a week. It is so easy and my family devours it! Once again Joy, you are amazing. Thank you.

  2. “Call someone you love. On the phone. With your voice. Itโ€™s all about nurturing relationships which, apparently, donโ€™t nurture themselves.” WITH YOUR VOICE made me laugh! Good advice, Joy – and I’d tell you that, with my voice, if I had your phone number. :-)

  3. Inspiring! And I made the chicken for supper last night. My family was in heaven! My 13 year old wanted a portion saved so she could have it for breakfast this morning!

  4. You give the best advice Joy. I always look forward to reading what you have to say, especially on Let it be Sunday :) love your positive outlook :)

  5. JOY, love love LOVE your blog posts! The Sunday posts keep me informed and, yes is true, add a “cool factor” to my world because: you/Joy = way more hip/in-the-know than me! And, this post? THIS is exactly how I need to start my weeks. I especially like your suggestions to write down weekly goals, give pep talks and try to see others’ perspectives. Thank you for being super-awesome!!

  6. Thanks Joy for such an amazing list of reminders! I’m a big fan of coconut water as it replenishes the electrolytes but never heard of coconut water powder. How does it compare to actual coconut water?

  7. Oh I love this. Yes! It’s so good to start off the working week with positive good vibes. That chicken looks like the perfect thing to make one day during this rainy/cloudy week too.

  8. Late to the Monday pep talk — but will try it next week! You’re a great writer who tells it like it is, ice cream sandwich and all. Thanks!

  9. This was a great post and perfect for a Monday, when I think we all need a pep talk. I completely agree with being considerate to ourselves and those around us. Love your words of encouragement!

  10. I took your Monday challenge by the horns and conquered my fear of piping โ€ฆ.thanks to you. I ordered the Layered cookbook you recommended and baked her Riesling rhubarb crisp cake. I made fire! It turned out. I give you a shout-out in my blog. Thanks for the courage and the cookbook recommendation!

    https://naramatablendblog.wordpress.com/2016/05/10/love-is-like-a-good-cake-you-never-know-when-its-coming-but-youd-better-eat-it-when-it-does-joybell-c/

  11. I often come here on a Monday for an inspiring Monday-based post because you’re SO good at them! Thanks :-)

  12. Such a great post – thanks a lot. Especially the “Do the thing you don’t want to do” – I definitely have one of those and I’m going to tackle it this week. Going on the list!
    Happy “crossing off the list” and enjoy the ice cream! Sina

  13. I’d say you’re already killing it this week! Posts on Sunday AND Monday – boom pow! Must be all that new Drake inspo!

  14. This is a great post and so timely. While I’m not sure of the water mix you proposed, I got inspired and have created my own -that I’m going to head to the store on the way home to concocted – plus weekday chicken – bam… dinner decided. So enjoy your blog. – TAF theappreciationfactor.worpdress.com

  15. I am such a procrastinator with the stuff I don’t want to do, too! I have come to realize life is so much better when you just get it over with and can move on to better stuff. Thank you for the tips!

  16. One piece of advice that my best friend continues to tell me in her pep-talks is “love begets love”. This feels very similar to “positivity breeds”. :)

  17. I’m waking up at basically 11:30 on a Tuesday after finals week. Thank you for this Joy – you’re the best!

  18. Thanks for a gentle reminder that to do lists need to be about more than just things.

    The link for a Weeknight Chicken Dinner actually took me to Shutterbean and a fabulous Spinach Egg Breakfast

    Sandwich that I raided the ingredients for tonight’s dinner to make this morning …..yummy.

    Lots of great ideas that can carry over into daily lists also.

    Thanks again Joy, not only did I get great ideas and a great breakfast, I found another great blog to follow.

    JD

  19. “In conflict, think of the other perspective: See someoneโ€™s frustration as where they might need support and what you can offer. And then, if you do this successfullyโ€ฆ eat an ice cream sandwich because that business is hard sometimes.”

    This is SO hard, but so beneficial to any and all relationships.

    1. โ€œIn conflict, think of the other perspective: See someoneโ€™s frustration as where they might need support and what you can offer. And then, if you do this successfullyโ€ฆ eat an ice cream sandwich because that business is hard sometimes.โ€

      “This is SO hard, but so beneficial to any and all relationships.”

      Especially if you share the ice cream sandwiches!

  20. This is so timely! I just had my regular monthly team meeting and told everyone that my pledge to them is that no matter what happens, I am going to do my best to keep a positive attitude at work every day! I also have two friends that live in the US( I am in Canada) and I text them once or twice a week just to let them know I am thinking about them. I think I might call them today instead.

  21. Great post for a Monday morning! Question about Best Weekday Chicken. I was directed to a Spring Minestrone?

  22. Yay! So inspiring! I’m guessing your pep talk goal is the reason you texted me the sweetest message yesterday. I really appreciated it! I thought about it all day :)
    Let’s go get Monday! Let’s also be super nice to all those around us–cashiers, clerks, strangers we walk by. I swear it makes a difference :) <3 XO

  23. Wow Joy! You really shared some good stuff here. These little tips really got me thinking of the little things, how much they matter, and what I can do to make this week great. The small things truly add up. Keep doing what you do and being your wonderful self! Sending love, Jess

  24. Monday is time to reboot. I always think, “Anything can happen week!” And it usually does. I hope you have an exciting, surprising week!

  25. What a great way to start Monday morning! Water is definitely my struggle. Not sure why it’s so hard to remember to stay hydrated. I know it would make me feel better!

  26. Thank you Joy! Just what I needed this week! Off to write that list of goals including time for ice cream! ;)

  27. I can relate to pretty much anything on that list – no, I don’t want to make that call! Something we all should listen to, love this post.

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