Love, Your Favorite Medium Friend

I’ve seen a meme going around lately that says “It takes a special kind of person to wake up early and still be late” which unfortunately, calls me out completely.

We’re headed to Arkansas for a weeklong vacation this weekend and I felt confident (if not bleary eyed) waking up at 4:45 in the morning to prep myself, the animals, and the house for my departure.ย  Despite my very best efforts, I still ended up an hour late for our departure time.ย  HOW!? I mean, I did suddenly decide to mop the floors when I still needed to pack my bags but… well, I guess that explains it.ย  It’s embarrassing, really.ย  Rude, some might say.

I did just Google the psychology of late people and I’m either passive aggressive or optimistic.ย  Obviously I’m leaning towards the latter.

I hate this about myself and yet, I’m not sure it’s changing anytime soon. My apologies are just going to have to get more creative.ย  At least I brought lunch?

Here are some easy summer Sunday links.ย  I hope this finds you happy, well, hydrated, and punctual.

โ€ขย  We can be real about The Vexing Problem of the Medium Friend. I thrive in the medium friend space – I think distinctly because Iโ€™m not pushy about time. Let me be your best medium friend (there are cookies!). ย  ย (NYT)

โ€ขย  We’re nearing the time of year when only watermelon is considered lunch.ย  This Snap Pea Watermelon and Edamame Salad is my favorite way to make watermelon a meal.ย  I recently made this for a little friend and family barbecue, and, to be honest, it was a medium success.ย  Kids don’t know what to do with the combination of watermelon, green vegetables, and sesame.ย  Fair. (Joy the Baker)

โ€ขย  I am known to read summer beach reads all year long so Tobyโ€™s 2024 Summer Reading List will get me through the year.ย  I’m starting with Housemates.ย  (Joy the Baker, Bookshop)ย 

โ€ขย  Fine-haired cohorts listen to me โ€“ we need scalp sunscreen.ย  This Sun Bum is my fave.ย  (Amazon)ย 

โ€ขย  I absolutely loved this Ode to Humidity. I’ve come to love a thick, sweaty summer and honestly, my skin has never looked better. (NYT)

โ€ขย  ย New Orleans really does tap you on the shoulder and choose you.ย  It’s nearly Essence Fest in the Crescent City – here’s A Love Letter To New Orleans. (Essence)

โ€ข ย Do Less, Itโ€™s Good For You.ย ย You don’t have to tell me twice. JK, you absolutely have to tell me more than twice. I’m not listening, somehow. (Time)

โ€ขย  I must report that Iโ€™ve been obsessed with this white and dark chocolate covered frozen fruit from TruFru.ย  They’re like little bonbons. A perfect summer dessert. A bag doesn’t last more than two days in my freezer. If you’re strolling through the frozen aisle and spot these GET THEM. (TruFru)

โ€ขย  Timothy shared this old Judy Collins album with me. It might very well be the soundtrack to my Texas Era. ย Who Knows Where The Time Goes. (Spotify)

โ€ขย  Okay to this cowboy caviar meets pasta salad! We really should be adding beans to pasta salad more often.ย  (The Kitchn)ย 

โ€ขย  Did you see that our friend Karlee started a dirty soda food truck in Oregon?ย  We love it.ย  (Instagram)

Have a lovely Sunday, friends!

My love to you.

xo Joy

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  1. Thanks for the album rec! I needed something like this today! I swear I was musically born in the wrong era!

  2. Can so identify with the wake up early/still be late thing.
    HAppened just this morning…woke up early to bake a breakfast treat to be shared with my neighbors. Had a time in my head to get it made and when it would be finished. Somehow, I was half an hour off my schedule. Have no clue what I did with the time.
    Enjoy your vaca…I am guess only Grahm and not Tron will be heading off in the truck.

  3. Hah! I love and have all of Collins’ albums, but that one is a fav and happens to be what is on my turntable right now!

  4. I thankfully work in a pretty lax office, but without fail, I never make it in before or even at 9 am. I roll in at exactly 9:07 most days. Dunno how or why. I could wake up at 5:30 or 8 am, and Iโ€™m still pulling into the parking lot at 9:07. ? I try not to beat myself up about it, but it is frustrating.

  5. Oh gosh I love that album. My mom has this album and I grew up listening to it. Always made me wonder about my momโ€™s past. Iโ€™m going to sit in my Adirondack chair and listen to it right now in the muggy heat. ??

    1. Hahhaha! I jokingly describe Graham as a “Guy’s Guy” because he’s really interested in hanging out with men, especially in garages working on cars so I feel like he could absolutely start the truck, and maybe even change the oil.

  6. Oh gosh! Iโ€™m the same, wake up early and still be late to get on the road, the dentist or the farmers market! Iโ€™ll read that article you linked but I suspect Iโ€™m just more optimistic! Thank you for your Sunday reads, they really help me start a great week! ??

  7. Oh gosh! Iโ€™m the same, wake up early and still be late to get on the road, the dentist or the farmers market! Iโ€™ll read that article you linked but I suspect Iโ€™m just more optimistic! Thank you for your Sunday reads, they really help me start a great week! ??

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